Caitlyn Moony shared her journey of moving to Vancouver from Johannesburg in 2018, hoping to establish roots in the city. Prior to her relocation, she had worked as a freelance social researcher in South Africa but faced limited career growth opportunities and low pay. Vancouver, where her sister resided with her family, seemed like an ideal destination, being consistently ranked as one of the top cities to live in.
Excited about the prospect of embracing the West Coast lifestyle, Moony envisioned a seamless transition, anticipating scenic mountain views, outdoor activities, and a vibrant urban experience. However, her initial enthusiasm waned as reality set in. Struggling with the lack of professional connections and the ubiquitous requirement of “Canadian experience” in job postings, she settled for a demanding admin role at a startup, grappling with long hours and high living costs.
As months passed, Moony’s initial infatuation with Vancouver faded. She found herself resenting the city for not meeting her lofty expectations. The limited public transportation options, slower pace of life, and persistent rain became sources of frustration. Moreover, the absence of a close-knit community left her feeling isolated and yearning for meaningful social connections.
Amidst her struggles, the onset of the pandemic heightened her feelings of loneliness and alienation. Eventually, overwhelmed by these emotions, Moony made the decision to return to London, where she had previously lived. While London offered the bustling energy and social interactions she craved, she realized that her time in Vancouver had subtly transformed her, instilling a sense of tranquility and self-discovery.
Reflecting on her experiences, Moony acknowledges Vancouver’s imperfections but expresses a newfound appreciation for the city’s unique charm. Having returned to Vancouver recently, she hopes to rekindle her relationship with the city, understanding that it has its flaws but also offers a sense of belonging and personal growth.
